Hi, Anson

how do you do?

Firstly,congratulation to your sister, it will be a happy day and enjoy it!

Why would you say that  you become lazy? i dont think you will.recently the CantonFair is going on, and you take part in it too, so you will be more busy, wont you? i also want to join the CantonFair, yet i havent that chance...it is a pity that i havent joined it once.

these days i am always in a bad mood.....-_-because i dont know how to do for my future,as now i dont know whether i should quit my job on the basis of that i havent found another one.my sister asked me to find another job when i am working here....as she also know that my present job is not so good..

but in my view,i still want to stay there for several months to study...i think no matter how bad a company ,i still will learn something in it...and in fact my company is not so bad,just has a small scale..

yet i know that all of that is important too, so now i am in the contradition always.....

i dont know how to do?

on the one hand, i want to learn in the present company

on the other hand, i should be realistic too, as even when i will become a employee there,my salary will not high, yet i cant accept it

so ...

recently i am very down...

it seems that i am not happy after i began to work....

talk to you next time..

have a good weekend

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以下是引用I-stone在2007-4-20 22:32:00的发言：

Hi, Anson

how do you do?

Firstly,congratulation to your sister, it will be a happy day and enjoy it!

Why would you say that  you become lazy? i dont think you will.recently the CantonFair is going on, and you take part in it too, so you will be more busy, wont you? i also want to join the CantonFair, yet i havent that chance...it is a pity that i havent joined it once.

these days i am always in a bad mood.....-_-because i dont know how to do for my future,as now i dont know whether i should quit my job on the basis of that i havent found another one.my sister asked me to find another job when i am working here....as she also know that my present job is not so good..

but in my view,i still want to stay there for several months to study...i think no matter how bad a company ,i still will learn something in it...and in fact my company is not so bad,just has a small scale..

yet i know that all of that is important too, so now i am in the contradition always.....

i dont know how to do?

on the one hand, i want to learn in the present company

on the other hand, i should be realistic too, as even when i will become a employee there,my salary will not high, yet i cant accept it

so ...

recently i am very down...

it seems that i am not happy after i began to work....

talk to you next time..

have a good weekend

if you are really not satisfied with your current job, and feel down, why not quit it?

if you feel you still have to learn from it, calm down and be optimistic, one day you will get an better offer.

i am in embarrassing situation,

i am still in the pratical period, that means my job is still in uncertainty, our formal appoitment has been postponed

for months.

and our boss had arranged an undergraduate who has passed TEM-8, to join our department.

not a good news, the new employee will lower the average bonus, because the amount is already set.

And also, we are not busy at all, no need to employ a new employee.

However, in the other hand, good to work with a new colleague.

Today, I made a mistake, I did remember the client told me the contract is tier-client A,

but in fact, the contract is belonged to tier-client B.

things messed up!

As for the guangzhou fair, i just running some errands,  or sometimes interpreter,

i am not sure when to participate in it, maybe one or two days next week.

anyway, i believe my manager will try his best to help me to join the company formally.

it is just about when.

Good luck to both of us!

talk to you later!

by the way,

my old friends in this BBS decided to revive the forum "潮汕茶居", if you have extra time,

just have a look at it, you can make some friends in it.

hi,Anson

yesterday when i was ready to press "OK"to send my words to this wet, finally it couldnt be printed in it.

so tonight i try it again.

now i have decided to stay in my office until i can find another one...hehehe...

there are so many things for us to solve when you need to face the society...and only at that time i know that after i step into this "world", i have to decide everything by myself...

so no matter how it will be, i wont regret .

what i should do now is be smile to everything, and be careful when i am at work.hope that no mistake will pop up when we deal with things...and things will go on well

and now i learn that although at present i am not in a good position, yet be smile to it and as you said before"calm down and be optimistic",waiting for another chance in the future

thank you ,Anson ,as a good listenor

talk to you next time....

^_^

i am so happy that you have a clear picture about your job,

you have your own plan now.

smile to whatever you encountered!

I am still not sure about my future in the company,

tomorrow I will talk to the manager, or maybe the HR department to

enquire whether there is any good news for me.

talk to you later!

hi,Anson.

yes., now i just want to stay and wait and try my best to finish my work....i just want to contribute my whole heart into it...

and how are you recently ? how about your job? will you transfer into the formal employee?

talk to u later

i have no opportunity to be the formal employee in the upcoming year.

the company will sign a contract with me through an agent,

it hurts me deeply.

because there is a girl, she is the daughter of our boss' boss, and she want to enter into our department.

i am coming in the company in the wrong time,

have no choice but work hard to catch a hope that a year later, i can apply for a formal member of the company.

i don't know how to describe my feeling, so sad, and i fall ill.

i will go back to my hometown tonight, to have a rest, and then wait for being advised of 

my salary standard, and then make a choice to stay or leave,

i think, i will stay, and waste a year to see whether i can be the formal member or not.

because i hate changing job...

 

hi ,Anson,

how r u now? i am sorry to hear that you fall ill,hope that you r getting better now!

i wonder why you need to wart for about one year to become the formal employee.as you said that before,do you mean that you practical period is one year not three or six months as usual?

Now i understand why someone say sometimes the fctor that personal relationship plays an important part in some matters to some extent! no matter what talent you own, you will fail just because you havent it. and also sometimes the perfect timing is very important ,too.

Yet, i prefer to develop myself by my own ability, i am sure that you r too.

as the saying goes: you will shine one day as long as you r a gold.

just enjoy your present job, and the holiday

maybe during this holiday, i will just go shopping rather than go for a short jouney,just wait for next time

have a wonderful holiday

talk to you later

Rachel

thanks for your suggestion, i am coming back

no thanks...^_^

now i really cherish my friendship,because even if you lose all the things around you, if your friends always stand by you and support you,then you can always see the hope.and people should learn from others too,

talk to you later,tomorrow i have to go to work,

3166

thanks for your continued support,

I always add such words at the end of my business email,

but this time,

i mean it,

thank you, Rachel.

I caught a cold before the holiday,

and then,

my mother caught a cold, too.

I guess she must be infected by me, i am worrying about her.

hope she will get ok soon.

i will go to get my hair cut,

and tomorrow, i should go back to my office.

oh, no, time to prepare the dinner.

3166

Hi,Anson

hope that you have got better now,as well as your mother, and remember to drink more water,it is good for your health.

dont say thank you to me...i think friends should help and learn from each other although both of us havent seen each other, yet i always cherish my friendship,hope that my friends always beside me....

recently, many people around me such as my manager and a colleague catche a cold because of the hot weather.so take good care of yourself. but tell you one of my strange thoughts that i prefer to hear other's voices when they catch a cold...haha...first of all i am sure hope that my friends who are sick will get better, i just "enjoy" their voice because it has some changes between them....when i told all these to my colleague who are sick for more than one week, he are just puzzled why i have this mind....

summer has come..so if you have a short hair, you will feel cool....

yet i am still have certain long hair, and i have my hair curled because that hair style is more fit to my face shape than straight hair.sometimes it is a little hot for me,but i have been used to it....

u r sick, you like to hear the voice from a man who caught a cold...

hehe, kidding...

i am getting better, thanks!

and now, i don't want to talk about my job any more,

just waiting for the salary standard.

and be peaceful.

i am still young, i can accept any kind of results,

"Life is 10 percent what you make it and 90 percent how you take it," says Irving Berlin. 

also, Ralph Waldo Emerson said that "To different minds, the same world is a hell, and a heaven."

i am re-adjusting my attitude toward what i have encountered.

see you later 

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yes, but i just dont know why i will have that mind,i just prefer to hear....and also when i was sick, i also like to hear that voice although it is painful at that time.

i really appreciate that you r always optimistic, so ,i think i should learn from you, just look and do later, because all of us shouldnt complain anything,we should do better ,we just dont talk about anything about our jobs,as sometimes i also will be puzzled,maybe i still dont find my direction,hahaha.....

see you later

Rachel,

it is weekend now, what's your plan?

i am missing my mother, it is said that this Sunday is mothers' day.

so, i am going to call my Mum.

I read a essay, and got moved,

i hope u can read it as well.

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what do you think of it?

i think to marry such a 'wife' is really a fortune...

such kind of 'wife' had extincted...

Anson,

always in the weekends, i will just stay at home to have a good rest or maybe go out for shopping with some of my friends as i should go for work for six days, the Sunday is the only one day for me to relax, and i have not a boyfriend to share spare time for me...hahaha.....

In fact, i dont know how to express my feeling to my mother or father when their festivals is coming.but during the May day, i went shopping with my friend ,and then i decided to buy some clothes for my father,monther and my two nephews as at that time my sister and her husband came from Shenzhen to enjoy the holiday. therefore ,I regarded the clothers as their gifts ,haha....although every time when i sent the gifts to my prarents, they will say that:you don't know how to choose clothes for us, so you neednt do that longbefore....yet I know that they are happy !hahaha....

yes, if i was a man, it is fortune that i marry such a woman....

it's difficult to find such a woman,who is such considerate.we just can hope that the people around us are such considerate,too.it's hard to get on well with yongster and the elders.

talk to you later

Rachel,

you are so considerate, to buy your parents some clothes.

and you are so tender and considerate, no doubt, you will find your Mr. right very soon!

yesterday, i go to Ikea to buy some funiture, not exactly, just some little things...

funiture in Ikea is quite expensive.

after the supper, i called my Mum, she thought i must forget about the holiday...hehe~

she is so happy to receive the call.

i am considering that, some day i can invite my mother to live in Guangzhou with me,

but it is still a dream for me, at least not possible for this year.

i am not busy, near five pm, i ve already got back to my home... 

Anson,

hi,yes i will treat my friends more better than myself.i dont know why.

yet i will not how to express my feeling , and on the mother's day, Sunday, i dont give anything to my mother, and say "happy Mother's day...."such things....

maybe since i was a child , i dont like to stay with my mother ,and i prefer my father ....hehehehe.....yet, in my heart, i wish her happy and to have a good heath.and i also want to earn more money to support them, i want them to live comfortable....so i always learn hard and work hard... 

as the thing my future boyfriend, it seems that i wont find someone who suits to me.hahaha.....

although sometimes there are boys around me ,and we will become good friends, but just like this, haha....yet i cherish it too, as friends are important in my life...so i wont think this matter too serious...

now i am still in the office, as just now i was busy with my theme, it is hard for me to finish it ....bad luck....

now i am to leave, talk to you later

Rachel,

i am worrying about one thing,

my interest, my passion in English is going down, maybe because i don't need to use English in my routine

work. I am inviting some friends in this forum to have a dinner together in this week,

if you have time, and if you are pleased to come,

please let me know.

talk with u later

Anson,

thank you very much at first. i would like to attend,yet this weekend i think i will leave for Zhanjiang, for my thesis.....

although u neednt use english as a a communication in strument,you talk,review and read more about this aspect ,then you wont fall behind

the same thing with you that in my routine work i either need to use english ,just for writing some english email, and i have no chance to communicate with foreigners,......

i dont know how ....

hahaha....

hoho,

it seems a little pity.

my friends are busy, so the appointment has been canceled.

so, maybe next time!

oh, i haven't got your phone No. yet.

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